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How to play Never Have I Ever

1. Everyone holds up ten fingers.
2. Read a card: "Never have I ever..."
3. If you've done it, put a finger down and, if the group insists, tell the story. The last one with fingers up wins.

Updated November 2026.

1. Never have I ever pretended I'd read a book for a book club or a class.
2. Never have I ever spent an hour choosing something to watch and then watched nothing.
3. Never have I ever said "I'm five minutes away" when I hadn't left the house yet.
4. Never have I ever pretended to love a meal someone cooked for me.
5. Never have I ever pretended to be asleep to get out of a conversation.
6. Never have I ever waited a few minutes before replying so I didn't seem too eager.
7. Never have I ever played the same sad song on repeat after a breakup.
8. Never have I ever looked up an ex's new partner online.
9. Never have I ever hidden a purchase from my partner.
10. Never have I ever texted an ex late at night.
11. Never have I ever shown up at the wrong restaurant for a date.
12. Never have I ever pretended to know about wine in a restaurant.
13. Never have I ever shoved everything into one room because guests were coming.
14. Never have I ever said "I love you" first and not heard it back right away.
15. Never have I ever stolen a partner's hoodie and never given it back.
16. Never have I ever checked a partner's phone while they weren't looking.
17. Never have I ever given a partner the same gift twice.
18. Never have I ever planned a surprise that went completely wrong.
19. Never have I ever picked a fight when I was actually just hungry.
20. Never have I ever pretended to enjoy a hobby to impress a date.
21. Never have I ever watched ahead on a show we were supposed to watch together.
22. Never have I ever eaten someone's leftovers and acted like I had no idea where they went.
23. Never have I ever practiced kissing on my hand or a pillow.
24. Never have I ever spent an hour getting ready to look like I didn't try.
25. Never have I ever called a partner by an ex's name.
26. Never have I ever kept something an ex gave me.
27. Never have I ever written a love poem.
28. Never have I ever cried at the wedding of someone I barely knew.
29. Never have I ever won an argument and later realized I was wrong.
30. Never have I ever apologized just to end an argument.
31. Never have I ever planned our whole wedding in my head before the second date.
32. Never have I ever pretended to love a gift from my partner.
33. Never have I ever deleted unflattering photos of me from a partner's phone.
34. Never have I ever hogged the blanket and denied it.
35. Never have I ever secretly changed the thermostat after someone else set it.
36. Never have I ever pretended I knew how to fix something to impress a partner.
37. Never have I ever looked up how to be a better kisser.
38. Never have I ever smelled a partner's clothes because I missed them.
39. Never have I ever reread old texts from the start of a relationship.
40. Never have I ever been jealous of how sweetly my partner talks to our pet.
41. Never have I ever hidden snacks so nobody else in the house would find them.
42. Never have I ever brought up an old argument that was supposed to be settled.
43. Never have I ever had a secret nickname for my partner's parents.
44. Never have I ever talked about my ex for most of a first date.
45. Never have I ever said something embarrassing the first time I met a partner's parents.
46. Never have I ever taken a photo of my partner sleeping.
47. Never have I ever put my cold feet on my partner on purpose.
48. Never have I ever complained about my partner to friends and then defended them when the friends agreed.
49. Never have I ever checked over and over whether my crush viewed something I posted.
50. Never have I ever bought a gift for my partner that was secretly for me.
51. Never have I ever waited under the mistletoe on purpose.
52. Never have I ever spent the holidays with a partner's family and secretly wished I was with mine.
53. Never have I ever bought matching holiday pajamas for the whole family.
54. Never have I ever argued about whose family to visit for the holidays.
55. Never have I ever gone for a drive just to look at holiday lights.
56. Never have I ever changed my outfit more than five times before going out.
57. Never have I ever done a chore badly on purpose so I wouldn't be asked again.
58. Never have I ever worn a couples costume.
59. Never have I ever been on a ghost tour.
60. Never have I ever slept with a light on after a scary movie.
61. Never have I ever sent my partner to check on a strange noise.
62. Never have I ever made a resolution together with my partner.
63. Never have I ever missed the midnight kiss because I was getting drinks.
64. Never have I ever met a partner's whole family at Thanksgiving.
65. Never have I ever eaten two Thanksgiving dinners in one day.

Tips for a better game

• Use five fingers for a shorter round.
• Anyone who puts a finger down alone owes the group the full story.
• Take turns reading so everyone gets to choose a card.

Questions people ask

What are some good Never Have I Ever questions for couples?

Five from this list: Never have I ever pretended to love a meal someone cooked for me. Never have I ever shoved everything into one room because guests were coming. Never have I ever spent an hour getting ready to look like I didn't try. Never have I ever secretly changed the thermostat after someone else set it. Never have I ever talked about my ex for most of a first date.

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