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Questions for two people who think they know each other. Some are romantic and some are about who does the dishes.

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How to play Would You Rather

1. One person reads the question out loud.
2. Everyone picks an option at the same time, by pointing or by holding up one or two fingers.
3. Each side gets one sentence to defend its choice. Then go to the next card.

Updated November 2026.

1. Would you rather drool on your pillow every night or snore so loud the neighbors can hear?
2. Would you rather build flat-pack furniture with no instructions or paint a whole room with a tiny brush?
3. Would you rather have your in-laws move in with you for a month or move in with your in-laws for a month?
4. Would you rather live in a tiny apartment in the middle of the city or live in a huge house two hours from anything?
5. Would you rather go on a surprise date your partner planned or plan the perfect date yourself?
6. Would you rather have your partner read your diary from when you were 14 or have your partner scroll through your camera roll from last year?
7. Would you rather always know what your partner is thinking or have your partner always know what you are thinking?
8. Would you rather have a candlelit dinner at home or have dinner at the fanciest restaurant in town?
9. Would you rather slow dance in the kitchen or sing a duet together at karaoke?
10. Would you rather relive your first date or skip ahead to your 50th anniversary for one day?
11. Would you rather get a long handwritten love letter or get a surprise weekend away?
12. Would you rather have breakfast in bed every Sunday or get a back rub every night?
13. Would you rather be the big spoon forever or be the little spoon forever?
14. Would you rather have a partner who is a terrible cook or have a partner with a terrible sense of direction?
15. Would you rather share one blanket that is slightly too small or sleep under separate blankets forever?
16. Would you rather have a partner who snores or have a partner who steals all the covers?
17. Would you rather go on a ten-hour road trip together with no music or go on a ten-hour road trip together with no snacks?
18. Would you rather renew your vows every single year or throw one huge anniversary party every ten years?
19. Would you rather have your partner write you a song or have your partner paint your portrait?
20. Would you rather live in a tiny cabin together for a year or live in a mansion shared with both your families for a year?
21. Would you rather have a partner who is an amazing dancer or have a partner who is an amazing cook?
22. Would you rather wear matching outfits on every date or let your partner choose all your clothes for a year?
23. Would you rather date someone who loves big surprises or date someone who plans every detail ahead?
24. Would you rather have your partner serenade you in a crowded restaurant or have your partner read a love poem about you at a family dinner?
25. Would you rather always let your partner pick the movie or always let your partner pick the restaurant?
26. Would you rather date someone with a pet you are allergic to or date someone with a very loud hobby?
27. Would you rather go on a double date with your parents or go on a double date with your partner's ex?
28. Would you rather spend a weekend together with no phones or spend a weekend apart with your phones?
29. Would you rather forget your anniversary once or have your partner forget it once?
30. Would you rather get flowers every week or get a handwritten note every week?
31. Would you rather have a partner with a really loud laugh or have a partner who never laughs at your jokes?
32. Would you rather move to a new country together or stay in your hometown together forever?
33. Would you rather know the exact day you will meet the love of your life or know their name but not when you will meet?
34. Would you rather watch your partner's favorite show every night or have your partner watch yours but talk through all of it?
35. Would you rather have your partner surprise you at work or have your partner surprise you at the airport?
36. Would you rather share one big bathroom with your partner or each have your own tiny bathroom?
37. Would you rather date someone who texts you all day or date someone who replies once a day?
38. Would you rather relive your best date over and over or try a new date every week, knowing some will flop?
39. Would you rather get a proposal in a hot air balloon or get a proposal at home in your pajamas?
40. Would you rather get married in a castle or get married on a beach?
41. Would you rather get a nickname from your partner you secretly hate or never get a nickname at all?
42. Would you rather live with a partner who is a neat freak or live with a partner who is very messy?
43. Would you rather have your partner meet your strangest relative first or have them meet your most embarrassing friend first?
44. Would you rather hold hands everywhere you go or never hold hands in public?
45. Would you rather recreate your very first date or go on a date neither of you has ever tried?
46. Would you rather go stargazing on a warm night or cuddle by a fireplace in a snowy cabin?
47. Would you rather have a partner who sings badly but loudly or have a partner who dances badly but proudly?
48. Would you rather plan a wedding in one week or plan a wedding for three years?
49. Would you rather have your partner cook you a surprise dinner or have your partner clean the whole house while you are out?
50. Would you rather spend the holidays at a snowy ski lodge or spend the holidays on a tropical beach?
51. Would you rather spend the holidays with your partner's family or spend the holidays with your own family?
52. Would you rather spend your first holiday together just the two of you or spend it with both families at once?
53. Would you rather kiss at midnight on New Year's Eve or slow dance at midnight on New Year's Eve?
54. Would you rather be the back half of a two-person horse costume or go solo in a costume nobody recognizes?
55. Would you rather scream the loudest in the haunted house in front of your date or have your date hide behind you the whole way through?
56. Would you rather carve one pumpkin together and let your partner pick the design or carve two pumpkins and let the guests vote on whose is worse?
57. Would you rather watch a scary movie with someone who talks the whole time or watch it with someone who grabs your arm at every noise?
58. Would you rather slow dance with your partner to spooky music in front of everyone or sing a monster duet with your partner in front of everyone?
59. Would you rather be tied to your partner all night as a two-headed monster or lose your partner all night because everyone is in a mask?
60. Would you rather stay in with takeout and a movie or dress up for a party with a pricey ticket?
61. Would you rather share a midnight kiss in the rain or share one on a packed dance floor?
62. Would you rather plan next year's vacation tonight or let your partner surprise you with it?
63. Would you rather let your partner pick your resolution or let your mother pick it?
64. Would you rather slow dance in the kitchen at midnight or watch the fireworks from a rooftop under one blanket?
65. Would you rather be the one who cooks everything or be the one who cleans everything?
66. Would you rather eat two full dinners in one day to keep both families happy or skip both and order takeout on the couch?
67. Would you rather eat Thanksgiving dinner at a restaurant with no dishes to wash or eat at home and keep all the leftovers?
68. Would you rather have your in-laws stay for a full week or drive back and forth to see them four days in a row?
69. Would you rather cook the whole dinner with your partner in a tiny kitchen or wash dishes together for two hours after?

Tips for a better game

• Ban "neither" and "it depends". Being forced to choose is what makes people argue.
• If the group splits evenly, the reader decides which side argued better.
• Keep a tally. Whoever lands in the minority most often reads the next round.

Questions people ask

What are some good Would You Rather questions for couples?

Five from this list: Would you rather live in a tiny apartment in the middle of the city or live in a huge house two hours from anything? Would you rather be the big spoon forever or be the little spoon forever? Would you rather date someone who loves big surprises or date someone who plans every detail ahead? Would you rather know the exact day you will meet the love of your life or know their name but not when you will meet? Would you rather live with a partner who is a neat freak or live with a partner who is very messy?

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