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This or That questions for teens

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All 179 This or That questions for teens

Updated November 2026.

  1. Sunrise or Sunset?
  2. Beach or Mountains?
  3. Cats or Dogs?
  4. Pancakes or Waffles?
  5. Summer or Winter?
  6. Early bird or Night owl?
  7. Pizza or Tacos?
  8. Books or Movies?
  9. Sweet or Salty?
  10. Ocean or Pool?
  11. Call or Text?
  12. Window seat or Aisle seat?
  13. Camping or Hotel?
  14. City break or Road trip?
  15. Invisibility or Flying?
  16. Read minds or Teleport?
  17. Visit the past or Visit the future?
  18. Breakfast or Dinner?
  19. Ice cream or Cake?
  20. Chocolate or Vanilla?
  21. Rain or Snow?
  22. Thunderstorm or Heat wave?
  23. Board games or Video games?
  24. Sneakers or Sandals?
  25. Make a plan or Wing it?
  26. Big party or Small dinner?
  27. Spicy or Mild?
  28. Crunchy peanut butter or Smooth peanut butter?
  29. Fries or Onion rings?
  30. Pirate or Ninja?
  31. Superhero or Wizard?
  32. Talk to animals or Speak every language?
  33. Bubble bath or Shower?
  34. Scooter or Bike?
  35. Outer space or Deep sea?
  36. Astronaut or Deep sea diver?
  37. Cereal or Toast?
  38. Cartoons or Comic books?
  39. Top bunk or Bottom bunk?
  40. Water park or Theme park?
  41. Shrink tiny or Grow giant?
  42. Snow day or Field trip?
  43. Ketchup or Mustard?
  44. Gym class or Art class?
  45. Walk to school or Ride the bus?
  46. Cookies or Brownies?
  47. Cupcake or Donut?
  48. Concert or Festival?
  49. Group chat or One-on-one chat?
  50. Sleepover or Night out?
  51. Hoodie or Denim jacket?
  52. Headphones or Speakers?
  53. Online classes or In-person classes?
  54. First day of school or Last day of school?
  55. Summer job or Summer camp?
  56. Learn to drive or Learn to cook?
  57. Famous or Rich?
  58. Selfie or Group photo?
  59. Front row or Back row?
  60. Cram all night or Study a bit each day?
  61. Pop quiz or Surprise essay?
  62. Mall or Movie theater?
  63. Bucket hat or Baseball cap?
  64. Phone on silent or Phone on loud?
  65. Shuffle or Album in order?
  66. Messy room or Clean room?
  67. Single player or Multiplayer?
  68. Prom or Homecoming?
  69. Older sibling or Younger sibling?
  70. The funny friend or The smart friend?
  71. Skateboard or Rollerblades?
  72. Memes or Funny videos?
  73. Group project or Solo project?
  74. Know the future or Change the past?
  75. Vacation with friends or Vacation with family?
  76. Binge a show or One episode a week?
  77. Dance like no one's watching or Sing like no one's listening?
  78. Spotlight or Behind the scenes?
  79. Drummer or Lead singer?
  80. Talk first or Listen first?
  81. Homework with music or Homework in silence?
  82. Pen or Pencil?
  83. Notebook or Laptop?
  84. Truth or Dare?
  85. Sleepover at yours or Sleepover at theirs?
  86. Thrift store or Brand new?
  87. Eat the crust or Leave the crust?
  88. Coffee or Tea?
  89. Morning shower or Night shower?
  90. Snooze button or Up on the first alarm?
  91. Karaoke or Bowling?
  92. Tidy desk or Creative mess?
  93. Self-checkout or Cashier?
  94. Drive or Be driven?
  95. Day off in bed or Day off on an adventure?
  96. Small talk or Deep talk?
  97. Online shopping or In-store shopping?
  98. Save it or Spend it?
  99. Fancy restaurant or Food truck?
  100. Houseplants or Pet fish?
  101. Romantic comedy or Action movie?
  102. Road trip DJ or Road trip navigator?
  103. Couple costumes or Separate costumes?
  104. Love at first sight or Slow burn?
  105. Movie theater date or Mini golf date?
  106. Team trivia or Escape room?
  107. One long break or Several short breaks?
  108. Elevator or Stairs?
  109. Colored lights or White lights?
  110. Open presents Christmas Eve or Open presents Christmas morning?
  111. Hot cocoa or Eggnog?
  112. Ugly sweater or Matching pajamas?
  113. Sledding or Ice skating?
  114. Up at 5 a.m. on Christmas or Sleep in on Christmas?
  115. Christmas movies or Christmas music?
  116. Snowball fight or Build a snow fort?
  117. Christmas in the snow or Christmas on the beach?
  118. New Year's Eve party or New Year's Eve at home?
  119. New Year's resolutions or No resolutions?
  120. Peppermint or Gingerbread?
  121. Wool socks or Fuzzy slippers?
  122. Scarf or Mittens?
  123. Shake your presents or Wait patiently?
  124. Christmas dinner or Christmas breakfast?
  125. Decorate the tree or Decorate the house outside?
  126. Gift card or Wrapped surprise?
  127. Holiday baking or Holiday crafts?
  128. Snowy walk or Movie marathon?
  129. Santa hat or Reindeer antlers?
  130. Give gifts or Get gifts?
  131. Toast at midnight or Fireworks at midnight?
  132. Snowboard or Ski?
  133. Holiday sweater for your dog or Holiday sweater for you?
  134. Roller coaster or Ferris wheel?
  135. Haunted house or Corn maze?
  136. Chocolate or Sour candy?
  137. Scary costume or Funny costume?
  138. Trick or Treat?
  139. Vampire or Werewolf?
  140. Trick-or-treating or Handing out candy?
  141. Mummy or Zombie?
  142. Face paint or Mask?
  143. Full moon or Thick fog?
  144. Scary movie or Spooky cartoon?
  145. Jump scares or Slow creepy dread?
  146. Watching through your fingers or Eyes wide open?
  147. Ghost tour or Escape room?
  148. Group costume or Going solo?
  149. Pun costume or Classic monster?
  150. Cemetery walk or Haunted hayride?
  151. Fog machine or Strobe light?
  152. Tarot cards or Crystal ball?
  153. Board games or Dance party?
  154. Movie marathon or Game marathon?
  155. Learn an instrument or Learn a sport?
  156. Big party or Small hangout?
  157. Look back or Look ahead?
  158. Resolutions or No resolutions?
  159. Photo booth or Dance floor?
  160. New hobby or Old favorite?
  161. Playlist duty or Snack duty?
  162. Midnight selfie or Midnight hug?
  163. Sequins or Sweatpants?
  164. Karaoke or Charades?
  165. Fresh start or Same old me?
  166. New Year's Eve or New Year's Day?
  167. Kids' table or Grown-up table?
  168. Parade or Football?
  169. Leftover sandwich or Second full plate?
  170. Friendsgiving or Family Thanksgiving?
  171. Mac and cheese or Green bean casserole?
  172. Stretchy pants or Dress-up clothes?
  173. Black Friday shopping or Sleeping in?
  174. Board games or Movie on the couch?
  175. Touch football or Watching football?
  176. Pie for breakfast or Turkey for breakfast?
  177. Carve the turkey or Mash the potatoes?
  178. Hot leftovers or Cold leftovers?
  179. Road trip snacks or Airport snacks?

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What are some good This or That questions for teens?
Five from this list: Books or Movies? Pirate or Ninja? Headphones or Speakers? Know the future or Change the past? Day off in bed or Day off on an adventure?

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