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Light questions for someone you like or a first date. They are friendly, a little flirty and safe to ask.

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1. Choose a list that fits who you're talking to.
2. Take turns drawing a question. The person who draws it asks, and everyone else answers.
3. Ask one follow-up before moving on. The follow-up is usually where the good part is.

Updated November 2026.

1. What's the first song you played on repeat until someone begged you to stop?
2. What's the best meal you've ever eaten, and who was at the table?
3. What small thing reliably rescues a bad day for you?
4. What movie have you seen so many times you can say the lines?
5. What song would you pick for karaoke with the whole room watching?
6. What does a perfect Saturday morning look like for you?
7. What are you weirdly competitive about?
8. What compliment did you get years ago and still remember?
9. What are you a snob about?
10. What's the best view you've ever woken up to?
11. What can you cook without a recipe?
12. What's your idea of a great night in?
13. What do your friends tease you about?
14. What do people usually get wrong about you at first?
15. What's the last thing that made you laugh until it hurt?
16. What song can change your mood in ten seconds, and what's the memory behind it?
17. What would your warning label say?
18. What's the worst pickup line you've heard or used?
19. What's the most ridiculous thing you've done to impress someone?
20. What's the best first date you can imagine that doesn't involve a restaurant?
21. What's the first thing you notice about someone you like?
22. What cheesy romantic thing do you secretly enjoy?
23. What small gesture wins you over every time?
24. What song would go first on a playlist for someone you like?
25. What's your most charming bad habit?
26. What's the best compliment someone could give you?
27. What would we be doing right now if we'd met on vacation?
28. What tells you early on that someone is worth your time?
29. What's your move when you want someone to notice you?
30. What's the most romantic place you've ever been?
31. Which movie scene sums up your idea of romance?
32. What makes you nervous in a good way?
33. What do you find attractive that has nothing to do with looks?
34. What's the most awkward first date moment you've lived through?
35. What gives you away when you like someone?
36. What would you cook to impress a date?
37. What's the sweetest thing someone has done to get your attention?
38. What question do you wish a date would ask you?
39. What do your friends say about your taste in people?
40. Where would you take me if you had one afternoon to show me your town?
41. What tiny thing can someone do that you find ridiculously cute?
42. What's your favorite way to spend an evening with someone you like?
43. What were you like the last time you had a crush?
44. What's the boldest thing you've done to talk to someone you liked?
45. What do you think we'd argue about on a road trip?
46. What's the fastest way to make you smile on a bad day?
47. What would you like us to try together that neither of us has done?
48. Who was your first crush, and what did you do about it?
49. What tiny detail about a person do you always remember?
50. What makes you feel comfortable around someone right away?
51. What would a perfect second date look like if the first went well?
52. What kind of message makes you grin at your phone?
53. What should I know about you before a third date?
54. Which date idea only works in the rain?
55. What could you teach me in ten minutes?
56. What would you bring to a picnic to impress me?
57. What did you almost say to me and then didn't?
58. Which hobby makes a person instantly more attractive to you?
59. Which of your stories do you save for people you want to impress?
60. What are you hoping I'll ask you?
61. What's the last thing that gave you butterflies?
62. What snack would we fight over at the movies?
63. What's the best date you've ever planned or been taken on?
64. How do you act around someone you like compared with everyone else?
65. What's the nicest thing someone has noticed about you?
66. What would you order for me if I let you pick everything?
67. What's your favorite thing anyone has ever called you?

Tips for a better game

• Answer the question yourself too. People open up more when the asker goes first.
• Skip any card without explaining why. Nobody owes an answer.
• On a long drive or a quiet dinner, put the phone in the middle and let each person draw one.

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What are some good questions to ask your crush?

Five from this list: What song would you pick for karaoke with the whole room watching? What's the most ridiculous thing you've done to impress someone? What makes you nervous in a good way? What do you think we'd argue about on a road trip? Which of your stories do you save for people you want to impress?

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